It's not about changing ourselves, but rather about becoming ourselves. The more we know about who we are; what we love, hate and excites us, what really drives us - the easier it is to achieve our dreams. Without knowing who we are, we can't fulfill our dreams.
To learn more about ourselves, to really get to know ourselves, we have to discover and face our most essential fears. Without identifying and facing our fears, we will not grow and we will always have beliefs and feelings that stops us to get to another level - one of passion, gratitude, connection and unconditional contribution - of happiness.
Fear is our biggest factor of moving forward and growth. The 2 biggest primary fears that all people share is: a) we're NOT ENOUGH and b) we won't BE LOVED. The secret is to learn how to use our fears instead of fear using us.
Our own personal psychology and our beliefs and values we've created (our view on the world) controls our life. Our perception of our beliefs and feelings controls the actions that we will take, including doing nothing. Emotions controls and determines the quality of our lives.
There is a common force that's driving and shaping all our emotions and actions. It determines the quality of our lives and ultimately our destinies. The universal force is human need, regardless who we are. Each of us is unique, but we're all wired in very much the same way.
There is always a way to fulfill a need; the skill lies in finding a sustainable way to fulfill it, and in away that gives us more happiness than pain. Nothing in life has any meaning except the meaning we give it. And it's not what happens, it's what we DO, that makes the difference. In order for things to change and improve for us, WE must change and grow. We're not creatures of circumstances, we are creators of circumstances. Many people don't achieve their missions and dreams, because they never take the first step.
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